Summer reminds
me how much I love being a stay at home mom. I am so fortunate and blessed to
have been able to be with my little girls since they were born. I remember
telling my boss, the Mayor of Fort Myers, I was “retiring” when my first
daughter was born. It was hard because I loved working for the Mayor as his
public relations director, but I knew being at home with my kids while they
were growing up was something I wanted to do. My husband agreed. We rearranged
our lives and careers, so I could stay at home.
For almost
eight years now, I have been a stay-at-home mom with my two little girls. Now that they are both in elementary school
it’s time for me to go back to work. As I start looking at jobs again, it is a
little scary trying to find one when there aren’t many jobs out there.
I was
fortunate that I was able to fulfill my career “dream” job before having kids. In college I majored in broadcast journalism
and soon after college became a television news reporter. Now as I look for
jobs, I am not focusing on a television news reporter job, but any kind of job
in the journalism field.
The problem
is, my heart really hasn’t been in finding a job. I’ve done my “dream” job and I
love being at home with my kids. When they are in school, I volunteer at
school, help out in the classroom, eat lunch with my kids. When I work
full-time, I know I am going to miss things that my kids have at school. What
if my child gets sick? How am I going to pick my kids up from school? Who will
take them to school? All these questions are in my head as I look for a job.
I am sure
working moms know this all too well. How do you do it? I know it must be hard.
I have quite a few friends that work full-time and they are pretty exhausted by
the end of the day. They tell me they miss their kids. Some of my friends work
long hours and don’t see their kids, but maybe a few minutes before their kids
go to bed.
What’s the
secret to having a career and being a great mom? As I get back into the working
field, I want to do both. Hopefully that job is out there for me.
When it comes
down to it, as mom’s we have to do the best we can, whether we stay at home or
work. What is important is we take care of our kids and make sure they know we
love them. We have to do what’s best for our family.
SOOO HARD!! Don't do it unless you have too. I feel so guilty as a single mom working full-time and in school, I hardly have time with my 3 yr old. I hate it. I am seriously thinking about getting a master's degree just to be home more until she is older.
ReplyDeleteI was luckier than some mom's and did have the first 15 months with her at home!